Brown Sugar & Babies

One major conversational piece in our society is child support. Some men complain about the amount of money they are ordered to pay and how little time they are granted to spend with their child. Some women admit that hitting a man in the pockets is equivalent to a man raising a child. How did society reach such a screwed up mentality?

In my opinion, if a woman makes due to raise a child on her own, no matter the struggle, then raise your child. I know how hard it is to raise a child alone. Don’t become a statistic by being vindictive. Being a single parent can be expensive, exhausting, overwhelming, & at times draining. What many mothers are able to do is look in her child’s face and appreciate the genuine love she feels. Side note: by no means am I belittling the fathers who do it alone. I applaud you as well! I wish that parents could realize how important it is for children to see a family unit within the household. Children learn how to love and the roles of each person.

This is a topic that concerns me very deeply. I hate to see parents “trash talk” the other parent in front of the child. I hate to see women attempt to force herself back into the life of the father by way of the child. I hate to see a father go on with his life with little to no regard about the life he helped create. The only person who suffers, is the child…



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